How to get through your boyfriend’s bachelor party with dignity in several steps

One of the worries that keep us awake at night is imagining that day when our groom will attend his own bachelor party.

You’ve been having a terrible time for a few days, sensing that the worst will happen, filling yourself with dark thoughts and meaningless questions, such as: will he be attracted to someone else? will your friends take you to a streapper? Will some woman manage to tempt him and cheat on me before the wedding?

In fact, it is very common for the groom’s friends to hire a streapper who not only dances for them from a distance, but also comes up to them, touches them and they, of course, allow themselves to be touched. The most common explanation is that the appearance of the streapper was a surprise.

How to deal with your boyfriend’s bachelor party?

So, what do we have to do? Make a jealous scene? Be sympathetic and repeat it again at a friend’s farewell? Ask for detailed explanations? Shut up and pretend nothing is happening?

First of all, what you have to do is calm down, because all your fears are based on your imagination, nothing has happened yet. To help you suffer as little as possible the day of your boyfriend’s bachelor party, we are going to give you some tips that will allow you to overcome the situation with the greatest dignity and the least possible suffering.

Increase your self-esteem

Unmotivated jealousy is clearly a product of low self-esteem. When we do not love and value ourselves enough, we tend to think that other women are better than us and that anyone could take our partner away just by looking at her or touching her.

Think about it: if he’s going to marry you, it’s because he loves you. And if anyone could take him away from you… why would you want him by your side? Why do you need someone who would cheat on you with someone else at the drop of a hat?

A simple bachelor party can’t make you lose your partner, not even the fact that he is momentarily drooling with another is important. Rest assured that, for them, these are fleeting sensations that they forget after five minutes.

Believe in yourself, value yourself and eliminate ghosts from your life.

Find yourself an occupation

The busier you are that day, the faster the time will pass. Keep your mind occupied and oblivious to what might happen at that bachelor party.

Listen to music, exercise, go for a walk, read a good book, go to the hairdresser, make yourself pretty, buy clothes, go out with your friends, in short, try to spend the day as busy as possible and, in addition to entertaining yourself, do something for yourself.

Talk to him about your feelings

Explain how you feel, tell him what your fears are. If your boyfriend doesn’t know your feelings, he has very little chance of reassuring you.

Ask her to call or text you to let you know how the farewell is going. You don’t need a speech, just a kiss or a simple “Hi honey, I’m having a good time” is enough.

Nor is it a matter of ruining your bachelor party, as it is a once in a lifetime experience. Let him enjoy without pressure and you will see how the next day, you will return to complete normality.

Trust him

The mere thought that he is going to deceive us tortures us. The more ingrained this idea is in your mind, the more it will grow and all you will achieve is to wear yourself and your partner down.

Trust is the primary basis of a couple; if you can’t trust your boyfriend, what’s the point of marrying him? Take a vow of total confidence in him and only break it when you have reliable proof that he has deceived you.

Suffering “just in case” makes no sense at all. And above all, believe in yourself.