The five DON’Ts of a bachelorette party

Have you been chosen to be responsible for organizing your best friend’s bachelorette party?

Perfect! but remember that nerves can play tricks on you and make you forget vital factors.

But don’t worry because we are here to give you advice based on our extensive experience in organizing farewell events.

These are the 5 DON’Ts of any successful bachelorette party:

1. Not taking into account the bride’s tastes.
2. Failure to plan sufficiently in advance.
3. Do not think about the expense.
4. Failure to make a discerning guest list.
5. Do not measure the number of photos or videos.

Not taking the bride’s tastes into account

Whatever plan you have in mind to celebrate your friend’s bachelorette party, the first thing you have to do is put yourself in her shoes.

What’s the point of hiring the best strippers in Malaga, if the bride will eventually feel uncomfortable?

You know her well. You know if she likes spicy situations or is more into historical monuments and cultural activities.

A Tuppersex meeting can overwhelm you and on the other hand, organizing a treasure hunt to discover a hidden treasure in one of the corners of Malaga can transform your farewell into the best day of your life.

What can you do? Very simple, organize a Facebook or WhatsApp group, ask your guests for ideas and choose together the best way to celebrate.

2. Failure to plan sufficiently in advance.

Heed the saying: “Don’t put off until tomorrow what you can do today” and get to work right away!

Keep in mind that it is very easy for unforeseen events to occur and that if you schedule the celebration with very little time and very close to the wedding, a small delay can mean that your friend’s farewell party will come to nothing.

Imagine the following situation: with great enthusiasm and after countless hours of preparation, the day arrives when you deliver the invitations to the group and then… most of them tell you that they can’t fit in the timetable and that they can’t attend.

Wouldn’t it be a complete disaster?

Plan ahead and make sure that no unforeseen events will ruin your organization. Three to four weeks in advance is sufficient.

3. Do not think about the expense.

Not everyone can spend as much as you and not everyone loves your friend as much as you do to make the effort to go broke that month, especially in this day and age.

Before hiring a dinner in a 5-star hotel and a pink limousine, ask for prices and value qualities.

Think about the economic situation of each and every guest and adjust the budget to their possibilities.

4. Failure to make a discerning guest list.

If your friend has several different groups (friends, co-workers, college classmates, family members, etc.) think carefully about who you will invite.

It is better to have two bachelorette parties than to mix incompatible groups.

An inadequate mix of people can cause conflicts that can lead to conflicts that can ruin the farewell.

5. Do not measure the number of photos or videos.

Remember the saying: “What happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas” and think that your friend may not want certain people to see some of the moments of her bachelorette party in the future.

Think that the bride will get married, have children… and what you publish may seriously affect her family life and even her work.

Therefore, never post photos or videos of a bachelorette party on social media without everyone’s consent. You may even ruin the wedding.

We hope we have been able to help you avoid making mistakes that, as simple as they may seem, can turn your best friend’s goodbye to bachelorhood into an endless series of conflicts to be solved.

Don’t wait any longer! Contact us and tell us about your plans, your possibilities, group size and dates. We will help you organize an amazing bachelorette party.